"The Balance of Power was one deep journey into the human psyche.

My own first, as an opportunity to heal a great deal of my personal triggers.

As a result I am more at ease within myself. It is also easier to transcend my limitations as I now know what is causing them and how to overcome them in a lasting way.

It was also a journey into other people's psyche that brought me greater understanding in how they think.

I gained the keys to healing broken relationships, better communication with my partner and my clients and overall greater harmony in my Life."

"I have spent years studying psychology and philosophy to better understand the human condition, suffering and distress and this course has been THE MOST profound and illuminating in understanding our relation to ourselves, others and Being. A truly phenomenal experience and learning.

The Balance of Power workshop has thrown me a life raft of understanding and compassion when I felt I was drowning in a sea of shame, confusion and heartbreak. I can now turn towards ruptures, breakdowns and conflict with an open heart full of compassion, curiosity and courage in a way I never knew was possible before. "

"The BOP programme has shed light to issues I did not realize I had as well as helped me resolve them in a very time-efficient manner. Gently yet effective Rory guided me towards a better understanding of how I can respond instead of reacting when dealing with breakdowns. 

My frustration levels have gone down significantly when dealing with everyday challenges and I have gained a better understanding of how other personality types react to my actions.
I have become better in dealing with uncertainty. I have become better at compartmentalizing and I no longer try to troubleshoot issues which I cannot control. "

"The BOP process was mind-blowing to me. It was the first course that gave me a deep and lasting insight in the reasons people communicate the way they do.
I am now able to put into perspective how people respond to me and not react to it emotionally anymore, which makes my relationships much more fulfilling.​"

"For me, the BOP workshop was an interactive self-world discovery.

Not only did it help me find the words to express my own inner hearts intention, but it has given me the tools and encouragement to face other archetypes that are here to influence my personal growth. "

"BOP has completely transformed my understanding of other people's behavior. 

Because of this work, I now understand my own reactions to people's behavior and can interact with people much more effectively.​"

"Completing the Balance of Power course with Rory, the confusion as to what drives people to act the way they do has been explained.

Every relationship I now undertake I can do with the confidence of knowing what to do to ensure it doesn't (and what to do should it look to be) breaking down, whether with my partner, my children, parents, friends or colleagues. 

With a myriad of tools along with a clear sense of understanding, I have the knowledge and power to create appropriate and effective communication with both new and within current relationships.

What an incredibly insightful and powerful course! This should be taught to everyone and everyone should seek to complete this; it will change the way you live your life forever.

Rory - I cannot thank you enough!​"

"Rory’s Balance of Power workshop is the most life-changing experience I have undertaken over nearly four decades of work in the field of personal growth and relationships.

Viewed through the lens of archetypes, the survival of childhood experiences and the lived breakdowns and disconnections in adult relationships can be revealed in mind-expanding clarity.

Working in a safe, well-structured space with a group of committed seekers, each with a different life experience, the veil of confusion falls away.

For anyone who wishes to bring order to their world of relatedness, I recommend this extraordinary work."

"The Balance of Power is as simple as it is profound.

Rory Kilmartin takes us through the process, revealing layer after layer of 'aha' moment insights, until the full picture becomes clear for all.

Now, all my relationships, past and present, make so much more sense.

And I make more sense to me.

It is clear, concise, and will have far-reaching consequences in my life. 

This is not a learning I can forget. It only deepens, each day, as my new awareness of what has always been there continues to grow.

Now I look at people (and myself) in a whole new way."

"For most of my adult life I have believed there is something wrong with me, because I would feel totally different moment to moment and not understand why.

This shifting state of feeling would make consistent communication with those around me a challenge, because my perspective was forever changing dependent on my mood. This created endless breakdowns in my life I simply could not deal with; I would hurt those around me and myself. Since attending the Balance of Power Breakthrough Weekend I have complete clarity of understanding when it comes to these feelings, which has in turn meant my mood has become consistent and I am able to bring the best version of myself to every situation.

From me, and on behalf of my family, thank you Rory for bringing this to the world, the rest of our lives are significantly improved because of this remarkable material."

"Balance of Power is one of the most profound pieces of research I’ve come across and has been a complete game-changer to the lens I view my life and see others through.

It has demystified my own and other peoples behaviour patterns.

It has the power to bring forth the best version of yourself. Highly recommend."

"Balance of Power has provided invaluable insight into my own mind and behaviours as well as the minds of those who have proven themselves to be sources of unbelievable frustration and anger to me.

As a result of BOP I understand the causes behind my fantasy conversations which have lasted for over 15 years.

I am finally in the process of reducing them.​"

"BOP helped me creating awareness of my ‘unbalanced automatic pilot’ behaviour and shows how to become a balanced pilot of my own route of life. 

Before I translated someones reactions within the value frame that I uphold to, therefore giving it often the wrong “charge”.

Now I see more clear where and why other people come from, which language they speak and how to translate and interpret."

"The importance of this program cannot be expressed enough within the capacity of a few words.

It goes to the essence of relationships of us human beings and our relationships.

Being a much more balanced benevolent father with much less destructive force pushing on my young children, improved understanding of the need and communication with my young children.​​"

"In the past I have found some relationships difficult in my life. Since attending the Balance of Power, my life has transformed. I feel more centred and connected with myself and I have more confidence in my personal and professional life. My relationships have improved dramatically.

I have learnt some amazing teachings from this course which now allows me to navigate my day to day life. I feel more peace and clarity. Balance of Power gives you the necessary skills and insights that they don't teach you in school.

It's truly been an amazing experience which will always live on throughout the rest of my life. There's no going back now. No way!"

"The Balance of Power workshop helped me understand why my previous relationship didn't work out and gave me tools to do a better job this time.

It uses a clear framework that helped make many difficult situations and relationships clearer and showed me what I can do to make a difference.

It is so powerful and I would highly recommend it to anyone who works with

or is in relationship with people...

i.e. Everyone!"

"Never have I come across a body of work that has had, and will continue to have, such a life-changing impact on my life, as Rory’s Balance of Power.  

Enabling me to navigate through my Game of Life with much more eloquence, poise and purpose, while achieving the highest and best outcome for myself and the people I interact with.  

Beyond this, I feel this body of work represents the pinnacle of transformation potential that one can gain in life. This material will in turn raise the level of consciousness for all who come into contact with it and eventually, the entire human race itself."

"After 23 years of bullying, speaking up has been virtually impossible for me, and to say the least an incredibly scary thing to do. 

Whilst I am now removed from the environment where the bullying happened, I would still allow people to walk over me, many times inadvertently simply because I still (unbeknown to me) had a massive fear of speaking up for who I was and what I needed. 

After attending the 3 day Balance of Power workshop I am now well on the way to catching myself when I don’t speak up and am moving toward a future where speaking up & protecting my truth is normal for me.

Being prepared to disappoint others, in order to be true to my own needs is something I am now ready not to be afraid of any more.  

To say this one step alone has significantly improved my life would be an understatement!

Additionally I have had massive breakthroughs around understanding how other archetypes work, including a previous partner of mine, who would often lie. 

From my upbringing I understood all liars to be BAD people, through Rory’s Balance of Power workshop I understood why my ex-partner had the desire to tell untruths and how I could help him speak the truth to me & others."

"I came to the Balance of Power workshop hoping to improve my understanding and experience of interpersonal interactions and communication, which certainly has happened.

I understand a lot more about what was meant by certain actions of others that hurt me in the past and can see more clearly the warm intentions and fears underneath those actions. It is healing and opens up the possibilities for healthier connections and relationships in the future.

What I hadn’t anticipated is how it would affect my work and creative life. I create in many art forms and have for most of my adult life done so. I have dreamed of sharing my art with people, but for the most part I haven’t.

I have been stepping towards exhibitions recently, and had this desire for it to be perfect and to really control and limit what is shown. I wasn’t getting anywhere fast with this. One of the messages that came up during the Balance of Power workshop is that for my healing, I have a need to step towards honesty. I chose to share my work whilst on the coaching program. I set up an exhibition with most of my art forms, pulled out images and poems etc from 2004 all the way to 2019, hung pictures I felt were not good enough as well as my favourites and invited many people, including my fellow Balance of Power participants.

It was a phenomenal success in many ways. The images I liked less myself, were the favourites of some attendees. People found value and depth across the work for themselves and thanked me for sharing it with them and helping them to access those parts of themselves.

So the benefits spread to my wider circle... ripples on a lake.

I am looking at future exhibitions, and considering to share even more of who I am, what I see, what I love and what I love to do."

"Balance of Power is one of the most authentic, helpful relationship and self-discovery programs I have ever taken.

Understanding my archetype has significantly improved all aspects of my life.

For the first time letting go of the need to be liked and shy away from conflict.​"

"The Balance of Power process is revolutionary work! Understanding that there are whole nervous systems that operate completely opposite my own has changed the way I look at every human being I interact with and allowed me to communicate more clearly with everyone in my life.

Most importantly, I now have an understanding and acceptance of myself.​"

"This is a game changer.

There were always people in my life who were hard to understand with either their words or actions.

Not only do I now have clarity and understanding for them, but also the ablilty to more efficiently communicate.
 

Forever grateful.​"